Wow, way too long since I blogged!
Just an update, still working on my book. I actually have most of it done as far as the writing goes. I am reading and editing at this point. Not going to make my end of the year deadline but you can't rush a thing like this.
On another subject, last night we had our Food Service Holiday Party. I, along with another fellow lunch lady plan and co-ordinate the event. When we first started this about 7 years ago, we had about 60 people attend the first one. Food service at that time had about 50 people employed. People can bring their spouses and some do, but most don't. (Myself included). Now we have at least approx. 70 people on our payroll. (we opened a new high school and they have 17 people working there on any given day), and we had 18 people at our Holiday party last night.
The employee must pay for the party. Food Service doesn't have it in our budget to pay for it so we set an amount that covers food, expenses for door prizes and our costs to run the party. This year we set the price at $22 but it is a "cash bar". We think this is reasonable. We rent a room, provide games and entertainment, music, dancing, collect canned goods to be donated and EVERYBODY goes home with at least one door prize.
Over the past 7 years our counts to attend the party have been dropping, drastically. The past few years we had close to 40 people. This year we had 24 people sign up, and a few of those don't even work for food service.
My question is: what's up with that? Are we, as lunch ladies too tired to even want to attend a holiday party. Are we, as lunch ladies, not able to afford a party you have to pay for? Are we, as lunch ladies, not the party type ladies? I don't think that lunch ladies are "not the party type". I have attended several conferences where lunch ladies gather and they sure as heck like to party. Or, is it just our district that has less than half of the employees that want to gather together and let off some steam? Do we not like each other enough to spend 4 - 5 hours together outside of work? Are we all so busy we can't take one day out of the year to attend? Are we paid such a small wage that we can't spend $22 on ourselves? We always give plenty of notice about the date. I know the economy is bad but I just don't believe that is the reason for our attendance numbers.
Now I know stuff happens, people get sick, spouses party is that day, other events are the same day but come on.....
Am I whining here? Probably. It is a lot of work to get all the party together and try and provide entertainment that all would enjoy. I know our group isn't a dancing crowd (except for a few of us (meaning me), but we always have other stuff planned. Now I know nobody says we have to do this, we volunteered to do it, and those that attend are always very appreciative. But what does it take to get more involved. If they were getting paid for the hours there, more would attend. Maybe if we had "big ticket giveaways" more would attend (Where would we get the money for that?). Any ideas?????
This year we didn't even have enough money to cover the cost of the bill. Isn't that ugly! The hall told us we had to have a minimum of 40 people to book their banquet room. In the past as I said above, its always been close, so we thought that as usual, at the last minute, we would get another 10 or so people. But that never happened this year. Plus we had bad weather last night so we had an additional 7 people that couldn't make it, understandably. Luckily for us they had paid their money already so we had it to for the hall costs, but we still were short. The other person who runs our party paid for the bill and the money we were short out of her own pocket. We always have a 50/50 drawing which we donate the other "half" to a local charity. This year, our party costs had to be the "charity." For our meager 18 people that showed up, we got $80 that was split, people were very generous. $40 toward our costs. I never expected it to be that much and am grateful for every one's generosity.
I feel bad for those that paid but couldn't make it due to the weather. It was money wasted for them. We don't have the money to refund to them. Not to mention the food wasted! Tsk Tsk! We did call the hall (VFW TELFORD, PA) and they would not let us cancel about 4 days before the party since they already had the food, and we tried to change the date (just by a day or so) due to the weather, but they said NO again. So, we had no choice to have the party, come hell or bad weather!
The people that were there, had a good enough time I think. But in a big room like that, it looked pitiful our 4 tables of six with empty chairs.
We decided no Holiday party next year (or at least not in December). I prefer to take a year or so off and see what happens.
So that's my thoughts on the subject of lunch lady Holiday parties.
I hope you all have a great holiday. Take some time for yourselves and enjoy. Invigorate yourselves. Do something good for somebody else! Enjoy your family, friends and, yes, your co-workers!
All is well.
JoAnn
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Friday, June 12, 2009
Its Almost Over
One more week done for the 2008-2009 school year. Thank you Jesus! Two more serving days left. Two more days to get up early. You see, I am not a morning person. I don't sleep all day or anything like that but I like to get up about 9:00, relax, have my coffee, and watch the birds at the bird feeder. That is my idea of a perfect morning.
I gave my speech "The Lunch Ladies Very Bad Day" at the Toastmasters Club meeting on Tuesday. I did win the Blue "Best Speaker Ribbon". I was very nervous but I kept on going. I think I remembered every part of it. Now I must say that out of the four speeches that night (mine included), two of the speeches were disqualified because they went over the time limit. The timing of a speech is very important. I took a 10-12 minutes speech and had to cut it down to 5-7 minutes. But back to my winning the ribbon, I kind of feel like the winner of a beauty contest where the other contestant didn't show up. I wanted all to qualify. I wanted to see if I could win it when all qualified. Now I will never know. But... to be honest, I think I would have won. Mine was a humorous speech and people remember those speeches more than others. At a conference I went to they said "People learn best when enjoying themselves". As far as the speech being "edgy or having some blue humor", the club seemed to be ok with it. Our Club District Governor said it was fine and it was not too edgy for a Toastmaster Club. Or specifically our club. She said she knows of a Toastmaster that is a stand-up comic, and she wants to give her my email so we can "talk". Wouldn't that be awesome. I am sure I will be very intimidated but the opportunity would be huge. I hope I get to speak with her.
I am wondering if I could give the speech at a Chapter Dinner Meeting. I know all my lunch lady friends will enjoy it. I am taking an acting class and am going to work on the speech there. I am hoping they can help me with some of the delivery of the comical moments. In this acting class we are to work on a monologue. I chose a section of my speech. I gave my monologue at the class and the instructor said she was so engrossed in the story that she didn't even see anything she could tell me to work on. One of the other classmates said that she was glad I went next to last since if I would have went first, everybody would have been intimidated. Ahhh, such high praise! I admit that I love it. They were all surprised that I wrote it myself.
One thing I am learning from this experience is that maybe I can "write". I have never considered myself a writer even though I am writing a book. I have always thought of my book as wanting to tell my story. I am getting very excited about getting back to writing for my book this summer
Some of the Toastmaster Club members would like for me to enter the speech in the Humorous Speech Contest in the fall. I have to check out the requirements to see if I qualify to give a speech at that level. If I do, I might just go for it.
I didn't get to go to the SNA National Conference this year. It is in Vegas and I was sooooo sure that I was going. But... things don't always work out the way you want it to. My boss said she couldn't pay for the cost. Maybe just the registration. I even had cheap rooms since I work at a hotel part-time and I got a great deal on a room at $69 per night. The airfare was high and it would have been too costly for me to go. I couldn't see putting all that money out for me to go. Plus nobody else I knew was going. I thought I would be too uncomfortable being by myself in the city that never sleeps. A friend of mine said she would have come with me. But, it is too late to change things now. So......maybe next year. I intend for my book to be done and then maybe I can be doing a book signing there. That would be really cool.
Ahh..... two serving days to go......all is well......
I gave my speech "The Lunch Ladies Very Bad Day" at the Toastmasters Club meeting on Tuesday. I did win the Blue "Best Speaker Ribbon". I was very nervous but I kept on going. I think I remembered every part of it. Now I must say that out of the four speeches that night (mine included), two of the speeches were disqualified because they went over the time limit. The timing of a speech is very important. I took a 10-12 minutes speech and had to cut it down to 5-7 minutes. But back to my winning the ribbon, I kind of feel like the winner of a beauty contest where the other contestant didn't show up. I wanted all to qualify. I wanted to see if I could win it when all qualified. Now I will never know. But... to be honest, I think I would have won. Mine was a humorous speech and people remember those speeches more than others. At a conference I went to they said "People learn best when enjoying themselves". As far as the speech being "edgy or having some blue humor", the club seemed to be ok with it. Our Club District Governor said it was fine and it was not too edgy for a Toastmaster Club. Or specifically our club. She said she knows of a Toastmaster that is a stand-up comic, and she wants to give her my email so we can "talk". Wouldn't that be awesome. I am sure I will be very intimidated but the opportunity would be huge. I hope I get to speak with her.
I am wondering if I could give the speech at a Chapter Dinner Meeting. I know all my lunch lady friends will enjoy it. I am taking an acting class and am going to work on the speech there. I am hoping they can help me with some of the delivery of the comical moments. In this acting class we are to work on a monologue. I chose a section of my speech. I gave my monologue at the class and the instructor said she was so engrossed in the story that she didn't even see anything she could tell me to work on. One of the other classmates said that she was glad I went next to last since if I would have went first, everybody would have been intimidated. Ahhh, such high praise! I admit that I love it. They were all surprised that I wrote it myself.
One thing I am learning from this experience is that maybe I can "write". I have never considered myself a writer even though I am writing a book. I have always thought of my book as wanting to tell my story. I am getting very excited about getting back to writing for my book this summer
Some of the Toastmaster Club members would like for me to enter the speech in the Humorous Speech Contest in the fall. I have to check out the requirements to see if I qualify to give a speech at that level. If I do, I might just go for it.
I didn't get to go to the SNA National Conference this year. It is in Vegas and I was sooooo sure that I was going. But... things don't always work out the way you want it to. My boss said she couldn't pay for the cost. Maybe just the registration. I even had cheap rooms since I work at a hotel part-time and I got a great deal on a room at $69 per night. The airfare was high and it would have been too costly for me to go. I couldn't see putting all that money out for me to go. Plus nobody else I knew was going. I thought I would be too uncomfortable being by myself in the city that never sleeps. A friend of mine said she would have come with me. But, it is too late to change things now. So......maybe next year. I intend for my book to be done and then maybe I can be doing a book signing there. That would be really cool.
Ahh..... two serving days to go......all is well......
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Ahhh, the end of the year is near. We have 7 more serving days left (to serve lunch to the students). I didn't think the end of this year would ever come. What a year! First we had the teachers strike and we didn't go back to work until almost three weeks later in Sept. Because of the teachers strike we had only a few (like the actual day of the holiday) off. No Act 80 days (which is a day when the kids go for a few hours but we don't serve lunch), no extra days around the holidays and no teacher in-service days off. It sucked!!!!
I don't think there is a single food service employee in our district that isn't glad this year is over.
We had many challenges this year in our district. We added a "Vegetarian" choice to our menu. This means we serve five meals per day. My personal opinion is that is too many choices for elementary students. The "Vegetarian" meals don't get ordered by the students except by mistake. We go to the trouble of making them, then when the students comes through the lunch line, they don't want it. Its very frustrating.
In my kitchen we had quite a lot going on. Both of my staff members lost their mothers this year. It is such a tough thing to go through. Both also has to help care for their elderly parent(s) like I do. It is nice that we all understand each other when it comes to such matters. So, we had more days than usual where one of us was out. Luckily since we are all cross-trained in each persons job, we can step up and fill in where needed most. The substitutes in our district love to come to our school. I think we treat them with respect and they appreciate it. Plus we have a nice working environment.
On Tuesday I am giving a speech at the Toastmasters (Public Speaking)club that I belong to.
I am giving a speech titled "The Lunch Lady's Very Bad Day". I wrote the script/speech when I went to a script writing class. It is a compilation of some of the lunch lady stories that I have collected from people. I think it is entertaining and funny. I hope to bring home the "Blue Ribbon" which would mean I won for best speech out of four speeches given that night. I would say it is a little "edgy" or maybe a little bit of "blue humor" but I am going for it. One thing I learned at a conference I went to was: Never be afraid to make a fool out of yourself. I also might like to give the speech at our end of the year breakfast next Wednesday.
I hope to get my book to editing by the end of the summer and published by the end of the year. I have about 1/2 of it on the computer. I just need to get it organized and put the stories I have collected, where they belong. Wish me luck!
So, goodbye 2008-2009 school year. It was a challenge, but we got through it. Next year will be closer to a normal school year.
I hope you have a great summer! Enjoy the time off, rejuvenate yourself. I booked a trip to Cancun, Mexico for my family. Ahhhhh, all is well.
I don't think there is a single food service employee in our district that isn't glad this year is over.
We had many challenges this year in our district. We added a "Vegetarian" choice to our menu. This means we serve five meals per day. My personal opinion is that is too many choices for elementary students. The "Vegetarian" meals don't get ordered by the students except by mistake. We go to the trouble of making them, then when the students comes through the lunch line, they don't want it. Its very frustrating.
In my kitchen we had quite a lot going on. Both of my staff members lost their mothers this year. It is such a tough thing to go through. Both also has to help care for their elderly parent(s) like I do. It is nice that we all understand each other when it comes to such matters. So, we had more days than usual where one of us was out. Luckily since we are all cross-trained in each persons job, we can step up and fill in where needed most. The substitutes in our district love to come to our school. I think we treat them with respect and they appreciate it. Plus we have a nice working environment.
On Tuesday I am giving a speech at the Toastmasters (Public Speaking)club that I belong to.
I am giving a speech titled "The Lunch Lady's Very Bad Day". I wrote the script/speech when I went to a script writing class. It is a compilation of some of the lunch lady stories that I have collected from people. I think it is entertaining and funny. I hope to bring home the "Blue Ribbon" which would mean I won for best speech out of four speeches given that night. I would say it is a little "edgy" or maybe a little bit of "blue humor" but I am going for it. One thing I learned at a conference I went to was: Never be afraid to make a fool out of yourself. I also might like to give the speech at our end of the year breakfast next Wednesday.
I hope to get my book to editing by the end of the summer and published by the end of the year. I have about 1/2 of it on the computer. I just need to get it organized and put the stories I have collected, where they belong. Wish me luck!
So, goodbye 2008-2009 school year. It was a challenge, but we got through it. Next year will be closer to a normal school year.
I hope you have a great summer! Enjoy the time off, rejuvenate yourself. I booked a trip to Cancun, Mexico for my family. Ahhhhh, all is well.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Coincidence or Not?????
Yes I know it has been a long, long time since I have blogged here. Been busy with "stuff". But today was a day to blog about. Here's the latest about what is going on for me. A few weeks ago I decided I wanted a new picture on my computer at work as my background. So I went on the Internet looking for "beaches wallpaper". I picked one of the fist sites that popped up and clicked. Well, it was taking f-o-r-e-v-e-r to load so I just keep clicking away and tried to get out of the site (yes I am very inpatient when it comes to a site loading). Then I get this black screen with all this "stuff". Looked like adware or something like that. I "X'd" out of it and it kept giving me that "program not responding" crap...... I knew that I had a problem. Turns out I loaded a virus or a worm of some kind onto my work computer. Double CRAP! It was an accident but I feel horrible about it. I can't get onto the Internet at all (I use it for my orders), or onto our in-house stuff where I get all my information for work. Triple CRAP! I can no longer get any emails either (I get emails from parents when their kids with allergies will be buying lunch so we can be sure they will be safe when they eat lunch, plus I communicate with the teachers by email if there are any changes to the menu). Quadruple......well you know.....
Anyway, the school district tech says it is a really bad worm of some kind and is in all my files. So I will have to use a laptop for the things I can't get in to. Have you used a labtop????? I am a total PC person and love my keyboard and mouse. First the tech (a very sweet wonderful person by the way) sets up the laptop for me (I wasn't there since I had to leave). She leaves me very specific instructions on how to use it, how to lock it up, etc. However, I can't get a wireless signal in my office so I have to carry it around to find the signal and get a connection. So I wander around with the laptop trying to get a signal. Ok, so far, not a big deal. Then I try and use the little pad you use to move the mouse. OMG! I must be heavy handed or a total idiot! I am moving around the icons, tapping it, hitting it with my whole hand trying to figure out how to use it. Plus, I am scared to death I am going to break it! So...finally three days later, I am kinda getting the hang of it. I do want to master it. I have always wanted a laptop so I am determined to figure it all out.
That is not even the part that made me whan to blog today.
So, today I start up the Point of Sale (POS) system (our computer system that reads the kids cards and has their lunch account information in it) and the register reads the cards and the information I see looks like a foreign language. I could do a few cards at a time, but it would get unreadable. I kept having to shut it down, turn it off and unplug and replug in anything I could find. What a mess! I called our main office and told her I think that my virus got into the POS system and she was like "Oh NO, that is not good". I said "I know". She said she would call the tech person and see if they could come over. Meantime I went back and kept trucking along, barely being able to read the information such as what I had entered in, the names of the kids, dollar amount, whether they did or did not have any money in their account. What a nightmare. But I got through it. I was so happy when that last kid came through and I could turn the darn thing off. (By the way I could have stop selling snacks and had the kids only get a lunch but I was determined to not lose those sales)
During all this process I realized that this was probably not because of the virus, it was a register problem. I remember another manager had the same thing happen to her once. The tech called me and I told her that at first I thought it was the virus screwing up the system but now I think it was a register issue. She told me she agreed and had checked the system and there were no "viruses" in the system that she could see. What a coincidence! I have a virus on my computer but my register goes down around the same time. Hmmmm. I am a person who doesn't believe in coincidences. So I now am wondering what I am supposed to be learning here.
Back to my story. So my boss brings over a new "top" or new "guts" to the register, installs it herself and it seems to be up and running. Whewwww!!! Thank you Jesus! Will it work tomorrow? I have no idea! But whether it does or doesn't, I will get through it, because.... a challenge is good. Keeps the brain running at optimal speed. A challenge makes you realize just what you can do when you have to. A challenge makes you soooo tired you know you will sleep like a baby that night. And I intend to do just that.....
Ahhhh..... All is well.
Anyway, the school district tech says it is a really bad worm of some kind and is in all my files. So I will have to use a laptop for the things I can't get in to. Have you used a labtop????? I am a total PC person and love my keyboard and mouse. First the tech (a very sweet wonderful person by the way) sets up the laptop for me (I wasn't there since I had to leave). She leaves me very specific instructions on how to use it, how to lock it up, etc. However, I can't get a wireless signal in my office so I have to carry it around to find the signal and get a connection. So I wander around with the laptop trying to get a signal. Ok, so far, not a big deal. Then I try and use the little pad you use to move the mouse. OMG! I must be heavy handed or a total idiot! I am moving around the icons, tapping it, hitting it with my whole hand trying to figure out how to use it. Plus, I am scared to death I am going to break it! So...finally three days later, I am kinda getting the hang of it. I do want to master it. I have always wanted a laptop so I am determined to figure it all out.
That is not even the part that made me whan to blog today.
So, today I start up the Point of Sale (POS) system (our computer system that reads the kids cards and has their lunch account information in it) and the register reads the cards and the information I see looks like a foreign language. I could do a few cards at a time, but it would get unreadable. I kept having to shut it down, turn it off and unplug and replug in anything I could find. What a mess! I called our main office and told her I think that my virus got into the POS system and she was like "Oh NO, that is not good". I said "I know". She said she would call the tech person and see if they could come over. Meantime I went back and kept trucking along, barely being able to read the information such as what I had entered in, the names of the kids, dollar amount, whether they did or did not have any money in their account. What a nightmare. But I got through it. I was so happy when that last kid came through and I could turn the darn thing off. (By the way I could have stop selling snacks and had the kids only get a lunch but I was determined to not lose those sales)
During all this process I realized that this was probably not because of the virus, it was a register problem. I remember another manager had the same thing happen to her once. The tech called me and I told her that at first I thought it was the virus screwing up the system but now I think it was a register issue. She told me she agreed and had checked the system and there were no "viruses" in the system that she could see. What a coincidence! I have a virus on my computer but my register goes down around the same time. Hmmmm. I am a person who doesn't believe in coincidences. So I now am wondering what I am supposed to be learning here.
Back to my story. So my boss brings over a new "top" or new "guts" to the register, installs it herself and it seems to be up and running. Whewwww!!! Thank you Jesus! Will it work tomorrow? I have no idea! But whether it does or doesn't, I will get through it, because.... a challenge is good. Keeps the brain running at optimal speed. A challenge makes you realize just what you can do when you have to. A challenge makes you soooo tired you know you will sleep like a baby that night. And I intend to do just that.....
Ahhhh..... All is well.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Wow, it has been f-o-r-e-v-e-r since I have blogged. Work was very busy, or I should say "life" has been very busy. How do we do it all?
I could not wait to get out of work last week (the Tuesday before Christmas). Lunch money issues was really getting me down. Money must be tight this year since we are having issues with getting money on the lunch accounts for the kids at school. I try not to take it personal but I just can't help it, I do. Plus, my staff each had a family member loss this year so it has been hard on them too. I lost my father around the holidays so I totally understand how they are feeling, losing someone so close to the holidays. It really does SUCK.
I have been missing my dad, as always, and I was asking him for some signs to let me know he is still with me. After he passed away, we had many issues with the lights going off or on when nobody was around or touching them, and we also had some candles that I knew had been blown out that came back on. I would go to bed, wake up and notice candles or lights on. I have always felt it is my father, letting me know that he is still with me. So, I asked him for a sign around the holidays to let me know he is still "with me". Sure enough, within a day or two, I was in bed and woke up and noticed a light in our living room. I woke up my husband and asked him if he went and turned it on and he said no. So, I laughed and said, "thank you dad". I love feeling his presence and knowing he is still watching over us.
Along with all the money issues of the kids at school, we are starting a new menu item at our school. A "vegetarian" meal. This means the kids get a choice of FIVE items to order as their main item. Holy Crap! I don't even know where we are going to put it. Get this..... one of the items is a salad with beans. Three kinds of beans I believe are supposed to get put into a salad. Now, let me tell you, the kids rarely even take a regular salad much less one that has beans in it. Another one of the items is "Hummus". I have never even had hummus until the other day. Somebody had it at a dinner I went to, so I tried it. Now I will tell you, I have never liked chick peas so when I heard that is what hummus is, I thought no way. But I thought I would give it a try anyway. It was a hummus dip with roasted peppers. Now I love roasted peppers. How bad could it be. Well.. for me, very bad. I don't like the texture of chick peas and I really don't like the texture of hummus. Do you really think the kids are going to like it? Order it? Other items are sunbutter (like a peanut butter but without the peanuts) platter. We already have a "sunbutter sandwich" on the menu. The kids order about 5 of them on Mondays and take Zero of them. They always say they meant to order the bagel which is lunch "C". I don't usually force the issue. When you try to force them to take it they get that "look" like NO WAY and sometime they start to get all welled up with tears. Oh, give me a break. I usually say "take your bagel, but next time you have to take it". But they don't. We don't even check anymore. I don't even make the sandwiches anymore. I put some sunbutter and jelly in cups, bag two pieces of bread, and wait and see if it is left over at the end of the day, which of course, it is. So, hopefully these newly added menu items will be a non-issue. I sent out a note to the teachers before I left on Tuesday telling them about the newly added item. I told them "I am sure the students will be chomping at the bit to get their hummus platter and salad with beans". I also said in the note that "I thought it was a practical joke being played by my boss, but much to my surprise it wasn't and we really have to make these items". I got replies from some teachers that said "you are so funny!". The nurse emailed me and said she was "falling off her seat since she was laughing so hard", she also said "I crack her up". That was my intention, to inform and let them know about the items, but also let them know I am not taking the items very seriously. Who knows, maybe the children will L-O-V-E the new items and I will be totally wrong. Wouldn't be the first time.
Now on my plate (life's plate) is a community issue I am working on. There have been two bridges closed on my road within 1/2 mile of my house. I was upset about the first one, which has been closed now for two years, then last week, Penndot closed another one. What a mess. I emailed our local newspaper and asked them to do a story about it, which they did. I have also emailed a State Legislator and a Senator asking for some help. We will see what comes of all this. I am not saying that I am "fighting anybody" to get something done about these bridge closures since I don't believe "fighting" against anything helps. I am saying that I am being an advocate for the residents of our road. Sounds better than fighting against something, right?
I am now working on my third speech for my Toastmasters Club. I did a speech at our Holiday Club meeting and it went very well. I did "Mrs. Clauses Rant" and I told everybody how, "it is not Santa that keep the spirit of Christmas alive, it is I, Mrs. Claus, that does all the baking, cooking, cleaning, decorating, and wrapping of the presents.". I had some pretty good jokes in there (I hope you don't mind if I do say so myself), about how Santa knows what every child in the whole world wants for Christmas but has no clue what to give me. I listed items he has given me over the years like a car wash kit, two tickets to the Circuit City home theater installation seminar, and a two-year membership to Weight Watchers. I told the men to listen up and never give the female in their life something that implies that they need to lose weight, not unless they have a death wish. I also said that Santa did give me a gift I did like once. It was a mood ring, it turned a beautiful shade of green when I was in a good mood, but when I was in a bad mood, it left a red mark, right in the middle of his forehead. I had "googled" Santa and marriage to get some of those jokes so they weren't mine. But nevertheless, they were funny and I got some laughs. I have a third speech to do at our next meeting. It is about the many lessons I learned at the Fall Toastmasters Conference" I went to. I don't think I can make it very funny, but a speech is a speech so I am hoping for it to go well.
Last but not least, is my book. I am typing up more of it since I have a few extra days off. I am doing the Chapter on Allergies. I had it titled "Allergies Everywhere", however, today I thought of a new title "Allergies in a Nutshell". I think that is a better title, what ca' think?
Well, I wish all of you a happy, healthy, and prosperous New Year 2009. I am looking forward to completing my book, going on a great vacation and getting back to how I looked in the "1970's, 80's, 90, 2000's. Yes, I have lost the same 50 times at least two times per decade. Here I go again, just like Oprah!
All is well.....
I could not wait to get out of work last week (the Tuesday before Christmas). Lunch money issues was really getting me down. Money must be tight this year since we are having issues with getting money on the lunch accounts for the kids at school. I try not to take it personal but I just can't help it, I do. Plus, my staff each had a family member loss this year so it has been hard on them too. I lost my father around the holidays so I totally understand how they are feeling, losing someone so close to the holidays. It really does SUCK.
I have been missing my dad, as always, and I was asking him for some signs to let me know he is still with me. After he passed away, we had many issues with the lights going off or on when nobody was around or touching them, and we also had some candles that I knew had been blown out that came back on. I would go to bed, wake up and notice candles or lights on. I have always felt it is my father, letting me know that he is still with me. So, I asked him for a sign around the holidays to let me know he is still "with me". Sure enough, within a day or two, I was in bed and woke up and noticed a light in our living room. I woke up my husband and asked him if he went and turned it on and he said no. So, I laughed and said, "thank you dad". I love feeling his presence and knowing he is still watching over us.
Along with all the money issues of the kids at school, we are starting a new menu item at our school. A "vegetarian" meal. This means the kids get a choice of FIVE items to order as their main item. Holy Crap! I don't even know where we are going to put it. Get this..... one of the items is a salad with beans. Three kinds of beans I believe are supposed to get put into a salad. Now, let me tell you, the kids rarely even take a regular salad much less one that has beans in it. Another one of the items is "Hummus". I have never even had hummus until the other day. Somebody had it at a dinner I went to, so I tried it. Now I will tell you, I have never liked chick peas so when I heard that is what hummus is, I thought no way. But I thought I would give it a try anyway. It was a hummus dip with roasted peppers. Now I love roasted peppers. How bad could it be. Well.. for me, very bad. I don't like the texture of chick peas and I really don't like the texture of hummus. Do you really think the kids are going to like it? Order it? Other items are sunbutter (like a peanut butter but without the peanuts) platter. We already have a "sunbutter sandwich" on the menu. The kids order about 5 of them on Mondays and take Zero of them. They always say they meant to order the bagel which is lunch "C". I don't usually force the issue. When you try to force them to take it they get that "look" like NO WAY and sometime they start to get all welled up with tears. Oh, give me a break. I usually say "take your bagel, but next time you have to take it". But they don't. We don't even check anymore. I don't even make the sandwiches anymore. I put some sunbutter and jelly in cups, bag two pieces of bread, and wait and see if it is left over at the end of the day, which of course, it is. So, hopefully these newly added menu items will be a non-issue. I sent out a note to the teachers before I left on Tuesday telling them about the newly added item. I told them "I am sure the students will be chomping at the bit to get their hummus platter and salad with beans". I also said in the note that "I thought it was a practical joke being played by my boss, but much to my surprise it wasn't and we really have to make these items". I got replies from some teachers that said "you are so funny!". The nurse emailed me and said she was "falling off her seat since she was laughing so hard", she also said "I crack her up". That was my intention, to inform and let them know about the items, but also let them know I am not taking the items very seriously. Who knows, maybe the children will L-O-V-E the new items and I will be totally wrong. Wouldn't be the first time.
Now on my plate (life's plate) is a community issue I am working on. There have been two bridges closed on my road within 1/2 mile of my house. I was upset about the first one, which has been closed now for two years, then last week, Penndot closed another one. What a mess. I emailed our local newspaper and asked them to do a story about it, which they did. I have also emailed a State Legislator and a Senator asking for some help. We will see what comes of all this. I am not saying that I am "fighting anybody" to get something done about these bridge closures since I don't believe "fighting" against anything helps. I am saying that I am being an advocate for the residents of our road. Sounds better than fighting against something, right?
I am now working on my third speech for my Toastmasters Club. I did a speech at our Holiday Club meeting and it went very well. I did "Mrs. Clauses Rant" and I told everybody how, "it is not Santa that keep the spirit of Christmas alive, it is I, Mrs. Claus, that does all the baking, cooking, cleaning, decorating, and wrapping of the presents.". I had some pretty good jokes in there (I hope you don't mind if I do say so myself), about how Santa knows what every child in the whole world wants for Christmas but has no clue what to give me. I listed items he has given me over the years like a car wash kit, two tickets to the Circuit City home theater installation seminar, and a two-year membership to Weight Watchers. I told the men to listen up and never give the female in their life something that implies that they need to lose weight, not unless they have a death wish. I also said that Santa did give me a gift I did like once. It was a mood ring, it turned a beautiful shade of green when I was in a good mood, but when I was in a bad mood, it left a red mark, right in the middle of his forehead. I had "googled" Santa and marriage to get some of those jokes so they weren't mine. But nevertheless, they were funny and I got some laughs. I have a third speech to do at our next meeting. It is about the many lessons I learned at the Fall Toastmasters Conference" I went to. I don't think I can make it very funny, but a speech is a speech so I am hoping for it to go well.
Last but not least, is my book. I am typing up more of it since I have a few extra days off. I am doing the Chapter on Allergies. I had it titled "Allergies Everywhere", however, today I thought of a new title "Allergies in a Nutshell". I think that is a better title, what ca' think?
Well, I wish all of you a happy, healthy, and prosperous New Year 2009. I am looking forward to completing my book, going on a great vacation and getting back to how I looked in the "1970's, 80's, 90, 2000's. Yes, I have lost the same 50 times at least two times per decade. Here I go again, just like Oprah!
All is well.....
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Here a story, there a story
Where O Where have the stories gone? Where O Where could they be?
I was just soaking in the tub after a long day at work. As I am relaxing, I am thinking why can't I get any more stories for my book? Things happen at my school all the time that can go in my book. Do things only happen to me? I don't think so. I am wondering if I am doing everything I can to collect more stories. Here are some of the things I have been doing:
Blogging (of course)
Emailing everybody who have participated in the past by sending me a story, and asking
them to ask around and pass on my email or address to others who may have stories
Joining "website" groups. www.cafemom.com is a website that has a Lunch ladies Rock group.
I was on there yesterday and came across a woman who said that someone she knows
is writing a book and collecting stories. My heart dropped! OH NO! Then I realized that the
someone they were talking about was me. Thank goodness! (small world) I have a myspace,
youtube, and a facebook page where I advertise what I am doing.
Attending School Nutrition Chapter Dinner meetings. I was supposed to attend one last night
but it was cancelled due to the weather at the last minute.
Attending School Nutrition Annual Conference and passing out my "business card" that
asks for stories. I passed out at least 50 cards. I did not get a single story. I also
talked to many, many ladies there asking for their help. There was a lady I talked to at
one of the night get-together's and she had a million stories. I had no paper with me
to quickly write them down. DARN! I was so sure I would here from her. She had
30 years in the business. What a plethora of stories she must have.
So what is a lunch lady to do? What more can I do? I need more stories to make my book complete.
Whenever I talk to lunch ladies at dinner meetings, conferences or anywhere, the ladies always have a story they tell me verbatim. They will say "Oh, like the time the kid said", or "like the time I did........) I ask "please send me your story". I realize that I have to get those stories right there, at that moment. I have a small pocket recorder that I am planning on taking to the next Chapter dinner meeting. I will ask permission to turn it on. I am also planning on buying extra door prize tickets or a 50/50 drawing to give out to anybody who can write out a quick story or let me record a story". I know people love to win something. I would be happy to do that.
I got this idea when I was on the School Nutrition website ( www.schoolnutrition.org). They are having a PostCard Sweepstakes drawing for a free registration to the next ANC '09 Conference. Send them a story about a fond memory or story about a memorable ANC. They have a PostCard photo gallery that has postcards sent in with stories on them. Yes, stories! I can read some of them and they are exactly what I am looking for to include in my book. Heartfelt moments. Everybody loves to win something! What a great way to collect stories. I don't know if my 50 cent tickets will inspire anyone to jot a quick story down, but I will give it a try. Maybe I need to offer something bigger and better.
I have offered things before for stories. At our Annual Food Service Christmas Party, I sent a flyer and asked our food service staff to give me a story. I offered $20 for the best story and $5 for the 2nd best story. I got a total of three stories. I guess I need to up the ante! How much is a registration fee for the '09 conference? I have to check that out. Problem is we will have to pay our own airfare. That will hinder people from being able to attend.
School Nutrition Magazine was so kind to put in my blog address. How many 100 or 1000's of people read that magazine. I did get a few great stories from that publicity. But, just a few from one person. I need more!
On the cafemom website, someone posted a response that read "that lady writing the book is a genius". Well, certainly I am no genius or I would be generating more stories. I know there really is a need for my book. I know it will be popular. That comment proves that people love the idea.
I wonder if I can access and print in my book, the stories that are being collected by the School Nutrition website? I am going to email and ask them. Can't hurt to ask. No harm ever comes from asking. Maybe I could get the address of the people who sent in the postcards. I would be happy and willing to call, write or email the people who responded with a story and ask if I could use it in my book. Maybe I need to advertise my card in their magazine. I will check on prices for that.
I think part of the problem is that many lunch ladies do not email. My home address is on my card. I thought that might help. Do lunch ladies think their stories are not valuable, funny or heartfelt enough for a book. If they think that, they are wrong. Each one of us has a story that could resonate with someone. Each one of us has a story that could touch another's soul.
Anybody out there with any ideas? And, if you have already given me stories, please know that I am ever so grateful to you. Without you, there would be no book.
By the way, I bought a bunch of postcards to send in MY story to try and win a free registration to the ANC '09 conference. I am definitely planning on going. I hope to be selling my book by then. Signed autograph copy anyone?
I was just soaking in the tub after a long day at work. As I am relaxing, I am thinking why can't I get any more stories for my book? Things happen at my school all the time that can go in my book. Do things only happen to me? I don't think so. I am wondering if I am doing everything I can to collect more stories. Here are some of the things I have been doing:
Blogging (of course)
Emailing everybody who have participated in the past by sending me a story, and asking
them to ask around and pass on my email or address to others who may have stories
Joining "website" groups. www.cafemom.com is a website that has a Lunch ladies Rock group.
I was on there yesterday and came across a woman who said that someone she knows
is writing a book and collecting stories. My heart dropped! OH NO! Then I realized that the
someone they were talking about was me. Thank goodness! (small world) I have a myspace,
youtube, and a facebook page where I advertise what I am doing.
Attending School Nutrition Chapter Dinner meetings. I was supposed to attend one last night
but it was cancelled due to the weather at the last minute.
Attending School Nutrition Annual Conference and passing out my "business card" that
asks for stories. I passed out at least 50 cards. I did not get a single story. I also
talked to many, many ladies there asking for their help. There was a lady I talked to at
one of the night get-together's and she had a million stories. I had no paper with me
to quickly write them down. DARN! I was so sure I would here from her. She had
30 years in the business. What a plethora of stories she must have.
So what is a lunch lady to do? What more can I do? I need more stories to make my book complete.
Whenever I talk to lunch ladies at dinner meetings, conferences or anywhere, the ladies always have a story they tell me verbatim. They will say "Oh, like the time the kid said", or "like the time I did........) I ask "please send me your story". I realize that I have to get those stories right there, at that moment. I have a small pocket recorder that I am planning on taking to the next Chapter dinner meeting. I will ask permission to turn it on. I am also planning on buying extra door prize tickets or a 50/50 drawing to give out to anybody who can write out a quick story or let me record a story". I know people love to win something. I would be happy to do that.
I got this idea when I was on the School Nutrition website ( www.schoolnutrition.org). They are having a PostCard Sweepstakes drawing for a free registration to the next ANC '09 Conference. Send them a story about a fond memory or story about a memorable ANC. They have a PostCard photo gallery that has postcards sent in with stories on them. Yes, stories! I can read some of them and they are exactly what I am looking for to include in my book. Heartfelt moments. Everybody loves to win something! What a great way to collect stories. I don't know if my 50 cent tickets will inspire anyone to jot a quick story down, but I will give it a try. Maybe I need to offer something bigger and better.
I have offered things before for stories. At our Annual Food Service Christmas Party, I sent a flyer and asked our food service staff to give me a story. I offered $20 for the best story and $5 for the 2nd best story. I got a total of three stories. I guess I need to up the ante! How much is a registration fee for the '09 conference? I have to check that out. Problem is we will have to pay our own airfare. That will hinder people from being able to attend.
School Nutrition Magazine was so kind to put in my blog address. How many 100 or 1000's of people read that magazine. I did get a few great stories from that publicity. But, just a few from one person. I need more!
On the cafemom website, someone posted a response that read "that lady writing the book is a genius". Well, certainly I am no genius or I would be generating more stories. I know there really is a need for my book. I know it will be popular. That comment proves that people love the idea.
I wonder if I can access and print in my book, the stories that are being collected by the School Nutrition website? I am going to email and ask them. Can't hurt to ask. No harm ever comes from asking. Maybe I could get the address of the people who sent in the postcards. I would be happy and willing to call, write or email the people who responded with a story and ask if I could use it in my book. Maybe I need to advertise my card in their magazine. I will check on prices for that.
I think part of the problem is that many lunch ladies do not email. My home address is on my card. I thought that might help. Do lunch ladies think their stories are not valuable, funny or heartfelt enough for a book. If they think that, they are wrong. Each one of us has a story that could resonate with someone. Each one of us has a story that could touch another's soul.
Anybody out there with any ideas? And, if you have already given me stories, please know that I am ever so grateful to you. Without you, there would be no book.
By the way, I bought a bunch of postcards to send in MY story to try and win a free registration to the ANC '09 conference. I am definitely planning on going. I hope to be selling my book by then. Signed autograph copy anyone?
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Finally, Back to Work
Finally, we are back to work. The teachers agreed to come back to work while there is "non-binding arbitration". I don't know much about what that means, but it is good to be back. We went back on Friday, September 19. Now, THAT was the weirdest thing. Going back to work after being off all summer , ON A FRIDAY! We were glad to go, its one less day to make up, but most of us had plans already for our last Friday off. We knew we would be going back either Tuesday or Wednesday the following week, so the 19th was our last Friday "of the summer" for us. But the call came Thursday morning, "be ready, it looks like we will have school tomorrow, we will let you know for sure later today". I was at my part-time job doing some office work when I got my call. I thought "ok, I will wait till I hear for sure". But as the minutes ticked away, my "school lunch lady brain" kicked in. Did I have everything I need. Did I have produce, milk, bread, what was I serving? My brain was in overdrive. I quick made some phone calls, luckily I was in a private office using the computer typing up labels. I called my staff, both of which I couldn't talk to personally since they were out. But they called me back quickly and were available to come in. Whew! Thank you Jesus!
I tried to concentrate on my typing and managed to get a few things done. My school boss had asked if I could stop in work to be sure everything was up and running. I had planned to leave work at 2:00 since I had a dentist appointment at 3:00. I told my "school" boss I would stop in my school at 4:00. By 1:00 the office staff was at lunch and I had run out of things to do. I figured I might as well leave. I went to tell the only staff not at lunch and she said "Oh, can you stay, we are having a going away party for you". How nice of the sales department at the hotel where I worked in banquets, to want to do this for me. I had to stay. They were bringing chocolate fondue and fruit! So, I waited. At 1:45 the fondue and fruit arrived. I had a few bites and had to go. They gave me a very nice "Thank You" card.
I stopped at work after my dentist appointment (by the way, I had a root canal on a back tooth that cost a whopping $1,250, can you believe it cost that much), and found everything in order. I did some things to help us be ready in the morning, then I went home and went to bed early.
Our first day back ended up with some problems. We turned on our cold table and it didn't get cold. Then about half hour later, the lights all flashed and went out on the cold table, and we smelled an electrical smell. That can't be good! Five work days later, it is still not fixed. The poor repairman had one problem after another. Finally, after three days, all day, working on it, and two electricians called in to assist, they figured out the problem was in the large cord. Since everything was "fried" we have to wait for new ballast's to be delivered since they needed to be special ordered. We still don't have lights, but we have refrigeration. We expect the Board of Health to be in very soon, They always come in the first month we go back to work. The good news is the cold table will be cold for them, however, I may get written up for the lights being
out. If that is the worst they find, NO PROBLEM.
My school was just opened 5 years ago. It is amazing how much equipment repair I have had to have, again and again with 5 year old equipment. They just don't make 'em like they used too.
I believe this cold table (which has been worked on many times) was a lemon. Do they have a lemon law on cold tables? Anybody know?
Our lunch counts were very low the first day. I was very worried. But, they rebounded this week. I don't think the parents were prepared, just like us, to go back on a Friday. Lunch money on students accounts is trickling in this year at my school. In the past, I would have stacks of prepayments of checks and cash, this year, it just isn't happening. I guess things are tough for everybody. Personally, I am not participating in the "recession". I don't listen for any news about it, I don't talk about it, I don't think about it. We are doing ok, and I don't think that listening to gloom and doom does any good at all.
I hope everybody has had a great opening of their schools all across the country. We did, even with our equipment issues and other things. The great thing about school food service is kind of like what Forest Gump said", "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get". Everyday you may meet a new challenge. You roll up your sleeves, and jump in, handling one thing after another, and before you know it, the day is over and it is time to go home. The months pass by quickly, then, its summer again and a few months of much needed recuperation.
So, welcome back to all. Life is good, All is well.
I tried to concentrate on my typing and managed to get a few things done. My school boss had asked if I could stop in work to be sure everything was up and running. I had planned to leave work at 2:00 since I had a dentist appointment at 3:00. I told my "school" boss I would stop in my school at 4:00. By 1:00 the office staff was at lunch and I had run out of things to do. I figured I might as well leave. I went to tell the only staff not at lunch and she said "Oh, can you stay, we are having a going away party for you". How nice of the sales department at the hotel where I worked in banquets, to want to do this for me. I had to stay. They were bringing chocolate fondue and fruit! So, I waited. At 1:45 the fondue and fruit arrived. I had a few bites and had to go. They gave me a very nice "Thank You" card.
I stopped at work after my dentist appointment (by the way, I had a root canal on a back tooth that cost a whopping $1,250, can you believe it cost that much), and found everything in order. I did some things to help us be ready in the morning, then I went home and went to bed early.
Our first day back ended up with some problems. We turned on our cold table and it didn't get cold. Then about half hour later, the lights all flashed and went out on the cold table, and we smelled an electrical smell. That can't be good! Five work days later, it is still not fixed. The poor repairman had one problem after another. Finally, after three days, all day, working on it, and two electricians called in to assist, they figured out the problem was in the large cord. Since everything was "fried" we have to wait for new ballast's to be delivered since they needed to be special ordered. We still don't have lights, but we have refrigeration. We expect the Board of Health to be in very soon, They always come in the first month we go back to work. The good news is the cold table will be cold for them, however, I may get written up for the lights being
out. If that is the worst they find, NO PROBLEM.
My school was just opened 5 years ago. It is amazing how much equipment repair I have had to have, again and again with 5 year old equipment. They just don't make 'em like they used too.
I believe this cold table (which has been worked on many times) was a lemon. Do they have a lemon law on cold tables? Anybody know?
Our lunch counts were very low the first day. I was very worried. But, they rebounded this week. I don't think the parents were prepared, just like us, to go back on a Friday. Lunch money on students accounts is trickling in this year at my school. In the past, I would have stacks of prepayments of checks and cash, this year, it just isn't happening. I guess things are tough for everybody. Personally, I am not participating in the "recession". I don't listen for any news about it, I don't talk about it, I don't think about it. We are doing ok, and I don't think that listening to gloom and doom does any good at all.
I hope everybody has had a great opening of their schools all across the country. We did, even with our equipment issues and other things. The great thing about school food service is kind of like what Forest Gump said", "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your gonna get". Everyday you may meet a new challenge. You roll up your sleeves, and jump in, handling one thing after another, and before you know it, the day is over and it is time to go home. The months pass by quickly, then, its summer again and a few months of much needed recuperation.
So, welcome back to all. Life is good, All is well.
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